Jun

14

As you might know, my dad died on April 6, and I miss him quite badly. He was my best friend, mentor, partner, and confidante. His death has been the hardest thing to deal with in my life, ever….and I have dealt with death before. Father's day was always an event in our house growing up, even bigger than Mother's day. It was equal to Mother's Day in our adult house, and my lovely wife and son always made sure I got a decent amount of swag. Before my dad died, I spent a lot of time with him reminiscing, and just getting to know him. Over the few months while he was waiting for Charon, he offered much valuable advice. Here is a very tiny sample of some notes I collected, but some tidbits are very apropos for Father's Day.

1. "Lying to protect someone’s feelings isn’t lying. It’s called empathy."

2. To my son, " someday during a job interview, the HR guy will ask you “What’s your greatest weakness?” This isn’t an invitation to be honest. This is a test to see how well you can answer a stupid question."

3. "Debt is oppressive and can be evil if done for the wrong reasons. If you’re going to go into debt for something, make sure it’s worth it."

4. "Always go for women you think are out of your league…..you will be pleasantly surprised."

5. "Compliment her shoes."

6. "Always stand to shake someone's hand."

7. "Nice guy's don't finish last but the boring ones seem to"

8. "Never allow the little head to do the thinking for the big head."

9. "Treat the woman of your life like a queen." "Worship her."

10. "There's always money out there, but you need to hustle for it…..it's not going to drop in your lap."

11. "When you are forced to do something, don't complain, the work won't get done any faster."

12. "The first one to mention price in any negotiation usually loses."

13. "When asked for a loan from an acquaintance, respond with,"My banker told me he would not invest the bank's money in grain futures if I would agree to not loan my money out." Then hand the acquaintance the banker's business card.

14. "There is life outside of business."

15. "The first one to get angry loses in everything."

16. "Personal thrift in all areas of life will pay big dividends later."

17. "When I'm gone, the entire family is your responsibility…..be fair and just."


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