Mar

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 Nodding assent is important so the speaker and group you are in know that you are in agreement and are with them. Japanese want to have group consensus and they want to know everyone is on the same page which nodding indicates. If you don't nod and acknowledge verbally every sentence some one speaks they might feel you don't agree or are looking down on them. So nod and say "yes", "I see", "is that so" after every sentence, even if you don't agree or don't understand. They will be very happy. You can then disagree with everything they say in argument or questioning and its fine. Nodding is also part of the greeting, and social etiquette of bowing and establishing social rank. A nod is a very low bow. Most of them will bow lower to you as you are the respected sensei of trading but a nod will complete the greeting. They don't really want to shake hands, so don't stick out your hand in greeting.

Things are much much more different in Japan now than 10 or 20 and 30 years ago. Many young people speak English. Hotel staff, rental car counters, trains have some English to accommodate tourists. The trains announce in English. People are much more cosmopolitan than before. They don't stare at foreigners and allow handicapped people out and about. This is changed from before.

Japan is clean. There is no rubbish at all in the street. The bathrooms are spotless. The toilets have little water jets.

Out of 100,000 people I saw during a recent trip there, I saw 2 fat people. The rest were thin or skinny. On return to the US, I counted loosely 75% of people were overweight by at least 10 pounds, 50% by over 20 pounds, and a 25% 30 pounds or grossly obese. It was very shocking and will have economic and health repercussions as time goes by for the US.


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